The ladder theory dating
If he fails to find someone else, then the only way for his feelings for her to die is through separation. I know that many things said here are hard to hear.
If they were not, then this wouldn’t be a problem in the first place.
It’s a pretty sweet deal to be an American woman (AW), especially when dating.
I thought that I could work through the situation where I remain friends with her without pursuing her. I hope that this document helps others to not make the same mistakes.
I believe this also applies to opposite, but to a lesser extent.
If you are looking at it from this perspective, just swap the gender of those involved. Others may call this “unrequited love” but I reserve the word love for much more than others, so I use disparity because it is more general.
If this is your intent, I content that you are wasting your time.
I do believe there are some cases where a girl does change her mind and date the guy, but such cases are rare.
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However, social forces have mitigated these traditional pressures in America, so an American woman can leap from one man until the next until her biological clock starts ticking in her late 20’s to early 30’s. I suspect that few AW are even conscious of how they are acting, and the ones that do make conscious decisions along these lines won’t admit it out loud.